When people perceive others to be suffering and offer insults, they are trying to distance themselves from the suffering. They will never experience what they think the other is suffering because they are not like that. It’s nice to think who we are insulates us from what we might experience.
People who insult you are not open to conversation. They are not trying to understand you or even to change you. They are just angry because you are reminding them that who they are cannot protect them from what they might experience.
You don’t have to answer. You should not answer.
When being interviewed, you don’t actually have to answer the questions being asked.
* Know what you want to say
* Every time a question comes close to your message, say it. Later the interviewer can/probably will change their question to fit your answer.
* Stick to your message, the things you least intended to share will become the focus of the interview
* Repeating the same message increases the chances that your intended message will be the sound bite selected for broadcast.
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